Setting an example

I was reading this morning in my devotions 2 Thessalonians 2 and 3 about standing firm and being able to set an example. In this scripture Paul is writing to the Thessalonians about their good work and persistence in what they believe. Paul continues by warning them that the lawless are out there waiting for the right time and that they, the Thessalonians, need to have discipline and to work together toward God's work. I have always believed in being a good model. I am not a 100% perfect as I do swear sometimes and am not always a great listener in my relationships but I do know from my relationships that actions speak louder than words. I can try to convince people of my opinion about not swearing but if I can not do it myself it means absolutely nothing. I am reminded of the scripture in Matthew (I think) about looking at others and judging the speck in others eye while ignoring the plank in their own. I think that despite these words it is a hard thing to do but if we are willing to look at ourself in the mirror first we could be a better example for others in our life. God's first commandment is to love him, love in the Greek is Agape meaning unconditionally. The second commandment is to love our neighbors, the same word in Greek as the first commandment, Agape. My point being if we can love God, with Agape love, then that love can also be transfered to that love of others. Because we feel that love from God then we can provide that love to others. My challenge love those that are unloveable and live your life according to God and his example for us.